People like to make New Year’s resolutions. I like to make New Month’s resolutions. Anything is doable a month at a time, and the first of the month seems like a good time for a new beginning. For April, I’m abstaining from alcohol. By the way, I realize the irony of the announcement on April Fools, but I do not jest.
As far as the A-to-Z challenge goes, I’m choosing a theme of action. My actions of the past year have largely involved sitting on my butt and typing words and reading books. Speaking of large and butts—something must change. And so this month instead of imbibing daily, I will attempt to take more action. I have a celebration planned in May that includes sun and a swimsuit and a beach. So let’s see what sort of headway I can make concerning my beach body, and let’s see if I can take twenty-five more actions to distract me from my alcohol habit. My action plan is somewhat sketchy, but I suppose I will figure it out, like I always do. One day at a time.
Faith + Gratitude = Peace + Hope 
Thank God we get to live one day at a time.
Best wishes for your month without alcohol. You can do it, Crystal!
Are you still walking with your neighbor?
God Bless.
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So true. Thank you, David! My neighbor has had her hands full in 2021, so we walk together less often. I still try to walk every morning (or 5 times a week). Have a great day!
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You can do it Crystal. I like the new month resolution idea, it feels so much more doable.
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Hi Manu! Thanks for cheering me on. ❤️
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Great post, Crystal.
A good goal.
I can identify with sitting, and ‘large’.
A nice celebration to look forward to in May. 🌷🤗
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Thanks, Sally! Hoping to try a few new things. ❤️
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I gave up alcohol a few years ago. The older I got the worse I felt the next day until I decided it’s SO not worth it. Good luck on your April challenge. I’m cheering you on!
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I appreciate the encouragement, Priscilla! 🤍
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I am the same way! Small things on repeat – New Beginnings 💗🏃♀️
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I always love a doctor‘s endorsement! Thank you, Dr. D.! ❤️
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❤️❤️❤️
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I like your idea of New Month’s Resolutions. I’ve never been one for NY Resolutions, but month by month I could handle. I may join you in your April Resolution. No joke
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I used to always use February for my new start (after a January fail). Somehow the idea morphed. I read recently, according to the CDC, 8 drinks a week puts me in the category of a heavy drinker, which made me think. Calorie-wise the drinks don’t help. I’m curious to see what happens in April. Good luck if you choose it, Ally!
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I think the Covid malaise means that we all need a boot in the butt to get motivated. We need goals and small steps to achieve them. Good luck Crystal and stay well. Allan
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Hi Allan! I know I’m not alone. Thanks for the encouragement. Have a great day!
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Hello Crystal, My car broke down and I meant to call The AAA but I accidently called AA. When their tow truck arrived they could only move my car twelve steps. Rim shot! Good luck. Have a dry, sober, great day Jerry
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That’s hilarious! Hope you’re getting around fine now. Take care, Jerry!
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Here’s luck to you!
Butt…juust doo it…hic…hickory…hick
Stopped in and around 1972…now only drink Barbera wine…a-couple days a month..is fine!
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😂 Good for you, Hal! That’s awesome! Thanks for the extra luck.
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You will do great abstaining from alcohol for a month and learn so much about yourself. You can do it!😊
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Thanks, Dwight. I take a month off from time to time. I’m keeping an open mind about it sticking one day.
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Way to go with your action theme A-Z challenge! I’ve been a teetotaler all of my life, but there are lots of other things that I could abstain from.
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I figure most of us are looking for things to do, and I’m hoping to try something new. 🤍
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Enjoy your vacation..
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😂 So far, so good.
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Great to hear!😁
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One month at a time is a good idea for resolutions.
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Thanks, Derrick. Sometimes, even one day at a time.
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Worthy goal, Crystal, and I wish you luck. For me, foregoing the hard stuff wouldn’t be an issue, but beer and wine? Where, oh, where, would my cooking be without a splash or two of chardonnay? You already are more formidable then I for trying, even, abstention, Crystal. Color me impressed.
Great to read you’re continuing the A-Z this year. Many thrills ahead. In common with last year, I look forward particularly to learning what you’re going to do with “Q.” Plus, we haven’t discussed “X” yet. Somehow, I think you’re about to remind us you’re a writer making full use of an expansive and creative mind.
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Oh man, Q and X. Your guess is as good as mine. I must locate my dictionary. Your luck is most appreciated! Have a great weekend, Keith!
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I am with you on this one — tough but pros are starting to outweigh cons for me. I will try to join you.
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I can’t remember the last time I went two days alcohol free. I would like to say alcohol is not a problem, but it’s definitely a part of my lifestyle. So far, so good. I even went to dinner with my husband last night. He drank wine. I drank water. I was okay with that.
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Better to try than not try at all, I say! 👍💃💥
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Thank you, BB! On my 4th day, I can say it’s easier this time than my last two tries.
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Good for you, Crystal! One month, one step, at a time. You’ve got this. 🙂
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Five days down. 💪🏻
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