My Dad is 84 and still seizing the day. He is an attorney and still working full time as he has for the past 60 years. A last minute celebration of the milestone manifested.
Dad called me the week of March 15 and said, “I’m cruising out of Galveston on March 24, and Liz is going.” Liz is my sister. She works for my dad. “Do you want to come along?”
Well, duh. My only hesitation was over a little surgery I would be having the week before embarkation. Surely a week of healing at home would be enough.
Kody was tied down at work, my brother-in-law, too, so Liz and I would share a room and some good sister-time. Our ship would be a healing sanctuary at sail across the Caribbean for me.
Dad told lots of great stories. Once a firecracker always a firecracker, but those are his stories to tell. My big sister logged it all by audio. And as often happens here, I feel grateful—for family, health, time, and an awe-inspiring world.
You have a great time dear 💖
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Just disembarked and waiting on my flight home, but it was a wonderful trip. Thank you, Adarsh!
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Good to see you enjoy the beach and aircraft, seems like life is wonderful if you grab surprise holidays with family and celebrate it like a kid 😀
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Exactly! ❤️
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What a lovely way to recuperate and celebrate Easter. We spent most of Easter in the Charlotte airport after our plane from San Diego was delayed for two hours, causing us to miss the last plane to Charlottesville.
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Lots to celebrate! Airport delays are a bummer. I had a couple of flight options home today. 1) Leave earlier, change planes along the way, arrive late or 2) hang out in airport for 8 hours waiting for the direct flight and arrive home at the same time as other option. First world problems, right, Pat?
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Absolutely. Not a huge fan of overly long airport delays, but most of them have someplace to sit, something to eat or drink sufficient restrooms, and multiple choices on what to do next unless it is a major weather delay.
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How beautiful and enjoying precious moments with your family!
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If I had been working this year, I wouldn’t have made this trip. Just another example of why you should listen to your gut.
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Amen to that Crystal! Make memories.
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Hi Bella…
So glad you got away….
Loved the pics—thanks for sharing your cruise with all of us….LUL 💞
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Hi Nana! Thank you! I can’t get enough of those ocean vibes. Lots of time to talk with God. Love you!
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What a wonderful impromptu surprise vacation and on a cruise ship no less. How fabulous Crystal. Sounds like it was the perfect recovery and a beautiful time with your loved one. Love all the pics. Hugs, C
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Here’s my takeaway: It’s nice to have a happy surprise to balance out the less happy ones. And you know what? Surprise! I can still dance. Hugs reciprocated, Cheryl.
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Thank you for sharing your lovely cruise with your Dad and sister with us all, Crystal. Hope the Joy of the experience greatly enhanced your recovery! Sending the sweetest of Blessings and very much Love, Betty. 💞
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Thank you, Betty! Without a doubt—family, the ocean, and joy enhanced the healing. Lots of opportunities to count my blessings and whisper my thanks! 💖
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🙏🤗💞
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What wonderful memories you all have made!
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So. Very. Thankful.
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Crystal, this post fills me with joy. What a perfect, perfect thing for your father to have thought of! Fun, relaxation, new sights, lots of love to go around, memories to enjoy over and over again.
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Why, thank you, Jane! We’ve had many a family vacation, much fewer as adults. Is it selfish to want many more?
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Beautiful🥰
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Thank you so much, Nathan!
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Your dad is amazing. 84 and still working! He sets a high bar.
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Dad gets restless if has to stay home sick. He always has to be doing something. Meanwhile, I’ve become quite a pro at relaxing.
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Time spent with loving family members is precious. So glad you managed that time Crystal. Have a good evening. Allan
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100% agreed, Allan. Thanks so much, and Happy Friday Evening to you!
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This is wonderful. What a joyful experience to spend time with family and learn all those stories. I grew up around lawyers, married one, and they have the best stories.
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How did I not know you married one? We celebrated 60 years to the day that Dad took his oath.
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How wonderful to get to spend fun time with your Dad and big sister! Best way to heal 🙂
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Hi Rosaliene! Thank you so much. Going is good, but then so is coming home.
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Oh my! I’m so happy for you that you were able to make it. And your dad – wow! He looks great! He’s the same age as both my parents. My mom’s in horrible shape. My dad, however, is doing well. He’s retired on his large property in Wisconsin and is always working outside on the land. Even in winter!
Lovely photos. What great fun! 🚢
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Thank you, Lori! Our parents grew up in a different era that shaped them. I can’t say I’ve experienced a Wisconsin winter. I can only imagine.
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What a great time together 😊. So glad you got to get away making these beautiful memories.
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I appreciate you for your kind words, Manu! I feel thankful for so much.
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💙😊
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So glad you had some family time. And it sounded like a peaceful time for healing. Such beautiful pictures. Thank you for sharing a bit of paradise with us. 💕
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Thanks so much, Bridget. The thing about a cruise—once you get your luggage to the ship, the rest is easy.
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Cheerful blog post Crystal. Reading this post has made me to see the importance of family. Your father has really lived, not many men like him reach the age of 84
Enjoy and celebrate as much as possible. My birthday is on the way too💖😊💯💯🙌
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My dad is doing great, and seeing him have fun makes for happy memories. Thank you, Mthobisi, and Happy Birthday to you!
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Thank you Crystal🔮😀🙏🎂🎂
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Time with family is priceless, and the sea is mesmerizing. I’m glad you had a good time.
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I was mesmerized over and over. Thanks for visiting!
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Crystal, I can see how this rendezvous refreshed the spirits from your encounter with your father and sister. Your Dad exhibits a blessed take on his life journey, which reminds me of my own father at 88 years young.
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Good morning, Richard! To be 84…88, I can’t exactly imagine, but I know my dad makes it seem like no big deal. And in my experience, I don’t feel that much different at 54 than 24. Hopefully wiser. Thanks for visiting!
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Love the video of the plane!
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Hi Kathy! There’s no bad view of the water. Throw in an airplane landing close by, and people get excited. It was an event to watch.
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How fun to celebrate your dad that way. What an incredible view! So glad you recorded his stories. Thanks for sharing the cruise with us!
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Thank you, Wynne! Dad’s memory for detail is quite amazing—especially in comparison with mine.
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Beautiful photos and inspiring to read about your dad. Safe travels. 🌼
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Thank you, my friend. Dad has shown me the path and also that he’s still learning. ❤️
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A beautiful blessing for you and your readers. 💞 Thank you so much, Cheryl. Side note to you my dancing friend – I learned this morning that a fellow NIA dancer from my Tucson tribe passed. Life is precious! Let’s never miss the opportunity to dance. 🤗
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I’m sorry to hear that—but happy she danced till the end. May we do the same!
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🙏🏻💃🏻💖
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Your dad looks great. It never gets old listening to those old family stories. I’m happy you could enjoy this special time with your family, Cheryl.
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Thanks, Pete! Doesn’t he? I keep thinking of things he said and laughing out loud.
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*Crystal (my bad)
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It’s okay, Pete. I know Cheryl and take it as a compliment!
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I heard the instrumental version of this on our ship but didn’t know the lyrics. Perfect pairing!! Hope you’re well, Jerry!
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Family is indeed a precious gift but only if you choose to see it as one. Nice vacation!!
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Thanks so much, Faith. Agreed!
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I wish I still had my daddy & momma! Enjoy them. Blessings
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Our mom is gone, so my sister and I filled in as Dad’s travel partners. We talked about Mom and felt her presence.
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Wonderful Crystal. It looks and sounds like a great family bonding trip.
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You nailed it, Brad! It was great on many levels. Thanks for visiting!
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Good for you, Crystal! How wonderful to take this trip with your dad and sister. I love that your sis captured audio of your dad telling stories, that’s going to be a gift that keeps on giving!
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Thank you, my friend. My dad is a character. One story started, “The first time I got hit by a car…” He was laughing too hard to tell it. Clearly, all was well.
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Ha ha! You knew it was going to be quite a story when it began “The FIRST time I got by a car”!
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Naturally, not every event takes on special significance; in fact, most don’t. However, how magical is it this amazing surprise happened at just the moment we celebrate opportunity and rebirth, both in the spiritual sense, of course, and in humming alongside nature’s renewed vigor?
It’s affirmation, Crystal, events coincide with your trajectory and that the Divine Universe endorses your narrative. Had events not proceeded as they did over the last couple years, would you and your family have celebrated your great news so magnificently, and at just the perfect moment?
Look at all of you – Mom obviously talked Someone into pulling a few strings! She wanted this cruise at least as much as you and yours did.
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Magical, surprising, celebratory, spiritual. It’s like you read my mind because there was too much for me to wrap my head around while sitting in the airport and writing this post via phone. Perhaps there will be a follow-up…maybe not.
I spent early Easter morning on the balcony with the ocean breeze and the sunlit sea and played Amazing Grace from my phone. Mom and God were there.
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Shiver me timbers! Your Dad paid for only three passages, yet you brought along a fourth. You utter pirates.
Someday, you’ll have to ask Mom how thrilling it was to be a stowaway.
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Aye!!
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I’m so happy for you! What a wonderful trip!
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Thank you, Linda! It was a wonderful getaway, and I’m thankful for this life. My husband and cat missed me, so now it’s good to be home again.
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It’s always nice to be missed. There’s also something special about coming home after a trip.
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Lovely photographs. Makes me want to visit the place.❤️ And such lovely memories with family. Thank you for sharing them with us.💞
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I like waking up in a new place—one of the best parts of a cruise. Thanks for visiting, Anoushka.
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What a special time together as a family!
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Absolutely! Thanks for visiting, Rachel!
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Seems like a compilation of a wonderful celebration being done. Very precious moments.
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Very precious moments indeed. Thank you, Godhuli!
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