
I count my years by December 30ths. Cheers to Year 53, and Happy Birthday to Me!
In the last days of December, I like to reflect and adjust. Or try to adjust. Why not enter the New Year with my mind right? Except in recent days, the more I turned the events of ’22 over in my brain, the more I heard nothing but crickets. I drew no real conclusions. Wasn’t it Socrates who said something like “The more I learn, the less I know”?
“In fact, there’s no better time than a new year or a birthday to let bygones be bygones and let it go. A gift to myself. Peace. I Believe our struggles strengthen us. I suppose that’s my 2021 takeaway. Strength. Perseverance. I made it. You did, too. As for 2022, I choose Hope. Maybe we’ll all be surprised.”
Crystal Byers
Perspective from my barely-younger former self, the girl who feels all the feels, but reaches for the bold.
As for 2023, I’ll stuff my pockets with the necessary ammo and wish you all the same:
Happy Birthday and Happy New Year! ♥️
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Thank you, Bridget! Happy New Year!
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Hi Crystal, I am just in from shoveling the latest gift of snow and yours is the first post I read. I hope you have a wonderful 2023. Thank you for your posts this year and I always welcome reading them because they give me perspective. I am glad your pockets have ammo but the ammo is gratitude, patience, family, friends and hopefully wonderful health.
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Hi David! Glad for your exercise and appreciative of your thoughts. Happy New Year!
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Happy birthday and all the very best of love and happiness and HEALTH in 2023❣️❣️❣️
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Thank you so much, Ellen! Health and happiness to you in 2023!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal! May your New Year be better than 2022 ❤
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Thank you, Rosaliene! Believing in good days ahead. Happy New Year!
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Happy Birthday to a Fellow December Baby Born in 1969! No wonder we connected Crystal. Add up our age and we have 8 — infinity ♾ 🎈❤️ It’s going to be a good year indeed.
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Happy Belated Birthday! And thanks for sharing about our age and infinity. Looking forward to the good in 2023!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal. Praise the Lord and pass the ammo! If you ask me, which you didn’t, crickets are better than something really bad–or even really good. Just like in golf, straight down the middle is often best.
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Thank you, David! Happy to share the ammo anytime. Happy New Year!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal! And Happy New Year.
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Hi Kerry! It’s a beautiful day for a new year. Thank you!
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Happy Birthday ! “Let how you live your life stand for something, no matter how small and incidental it may seem.” Jodie Foster K.C. Rothschopf
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Hi K.C.! Thank you so much. I like Jodie Foster (and standing for something).
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Happy Birthday, Miss Crystal. It’s ironic that one of your sentences in this brief post is the very top inspirational quote on my blog post today. Heh. Coincidence? Blessings to you. 💗
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I’m with you, Lori. Starting to believe there’s no such thing as coincidence. 💖
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Thank you for sharing and Happy Birthday!!.. hope the day, and your presents, are filled with love and happiness!.. “It is not the years in your life but the life in your years that count” (Author Unknown)… 🙂
Hope you and your family have a wonderful New Year filled with peace, love, happiness and life is all that you wish for it to be and until we meet again… 🙂
May love and laughter light your days,
and warm your heart and home.
May good and faithful friends be yours,
wherever you may roam.
May peace and plenty bless your world
with joy that long endures.
May all life’s passing seasons
bring the best to you and yours!
(Irish Saying)
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Thank you, Larry! Now onto the New Year. Peace, love, and happiness to you!
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Happy everyday to you but especially your birthday! We’re always working under the shadow of naivety, it shades everything we encounter, but it also protects us from the harsher rays of life. I’m a little envious of your ammo. Clearly I’ll need to borrow some of your patience! Thank you for sharing your wisdom so fruitfully with all of us! May you overflow with love and grace in 2023! Love you, C
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Thank you! Thank you, Cheryl! Such a lovely wish—May YOU overflow with love and grace in 2023! Love YOU!
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A huge happy birthday to you, Crystal! Wishing you a happy – and healthy – year ahead. 😊💕
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Thank you so much, Jane! I’m going to name it and claim it. Happy, healthy New Year to you!
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Happy birthday, Crystal, and Happy New Year too! “Hope” is something that it’s very much worth holding on to.
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Hi Neil! I agree. It’s dark on the other side. Thank you!
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Hey there Crystal, Happy Birthday – “Don’t count your years, make your years count.” Jerry
Hope stands for Hold-On-Pray-Expectantly.
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Thanks, Jerry! This is true. Besides I’m not sure I can count higher than 53. Seems like a good place to stop.
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Happy birthday, Crystal! This was a succinct and lovely reflection of 2022. Have a blessed 2023!
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Thank you, Priscilla! I just finished and (never thought I would say) enjoyed Dog Meat! Congrats and wishing you continued success in the New Year!
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Thank you so much for reading my novella! (You are brave.) What a nice New Year’s Eve gift you’ve given me.:-)
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Happy Birthday Crystal. Wishing you all the best in 2023. Allan
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Thank you, Allan! I’m excited for another fresh start. ❤️
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Interesting way to spend your birthday Crystal. May it be a year of love and peace.
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Thank you, Brad! Especially reflective because it coincides with the end of the year. I celebrated plenty! Happy New Year to you!
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Like your optimistic mindset regarding faith, gratitude, peace, and hope. The best to you in 2023, Crystal.
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Thanks, Pete. Kind thoughts much appreciated! Happy 2023!
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Love the perspective, so wise. Hope you have a Happy Birthday and a great new year!
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Hi Brian, and Happy New Year! Thank you so much.
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Happy Birthday to you! Hope you’re having a wonderful time!
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Thanks, Michele! It was a good one, and I’m excited to be home tonight. Happy 2023!
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Blessings abound! 🙏
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Happy Birthday Crystal! Looking forward to reading more of your work in the new year.
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Thank you so much! I look forward to reading yours, too.
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Happy birthday 🎂🎉
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Hi April! Thank you!! 🤗
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Happy Birthday Crystal and a happy new year to you.
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Happy 2023, Manu! ✨💖
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Happy birthday and a blessed New Year. 🤗🌹💖
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Thank you, Alaedin! Happy New Year! ✨💖
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o my, 53. Very very Happy birthday my dearest Crystal. Lots of smiles, wishes from here`
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Your wish was a favorite. Thank you, Dear Narayan! Wishing you a wonderful 2023!
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Best wishes for a wonderful birthday and a Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉
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Thank you so much! One down and one to go. Happy 2023!
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Crystal, you are truly blessed with both Happy Birthday wishes and a New Year with a clean slate. Best wishes as you and your students move into a new semester.
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Yes, I am! Thank you, Richard. Happy New Year to you and yours!
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Happy Belated Birthday and Happy New Year!☺️
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Hello, Feets! Thank you and Happy 2023!
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Thank you!
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Happy New Year and Happy Birthday, too!
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Thank you so much, Ann! Happy 2023!
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Happy birthday, Crystal!!! I will be 53 later this year too! 😉🎂
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Happy Early Birthday and New Year, too, Tiffany!
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Happy Birthday! I enjoy reading your thoughts!
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Thanks, Greg. I hope I have some new thoughts in the new year. Happy 2023!
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Best wishes for Happy Birthday and New Year.
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Much appreciated, Suni! Best wishes for your New Year!
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Happy birthday and Happy new year. First comment and first blog of 2023. Happy blogging 💕
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I feel honored that you started here. Thank you! Happy blogging and 2023!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal! Happy New Year! You get a double dose of reflectiveness each year! Each day, week, month, and year are gifts. May all of your “gifts” be filled with love and peace in 2023.
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Thank you for that perspective, Linda. Time is a gift, and gifts are love and peace. Wishing you time and love and peace in 2023!
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Best wishes, Crystal, on a new year, both for the calendar and for you.
Dreamers appreciate the fresh start and use that inflection to change trajectory and even priorities. Excellent. We do that, don’t we?
All the same, it’s useful too, to consider those goals which have withstood that natural impulse to change everything. Your own inventory includes Hope and Peace. They’re fine things to keep. New dreams should enhance them, not replace them. Always building, right?
By the way, when I was about this weekend, I spotted a sign wishing passers-by “A Joyous and Happy ‘2023’.”
“2023?” Another pair of unnecessary quotation marks!
Unless…That business knows “2023” is just an illusion. Actually, it’s 1978, and disco is very much alive. In our office the beat never stopped.
Happy 2023, “Crystal!”
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The things you see while out and about and the things that make you go “hmm…” I’m happy it’s 2023 (see your wishes worked, Keith). Still, I would like to think a good office beat never goes out of style. Happy “20”23!
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Happy Birthday, I pray you had a great day.
You are right about needing ammo so we are prepared for any battles.
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Hi Belldonna! Thank you so much. I like what Maya Angelou mother had to say—“Expecting the best, prepared for the worst, and unsurprised by anything in between.”
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That’s a word to live by!
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Happy Birthday and Happy New Year dear Crystal. May you have an abundantly blissful New Year 🤗💞
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Hello Krishna! Thank you and Happy 2023!
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Happy birthday and Happy New Year.
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Thank you so much LRH! And Happy New Year to you!
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Happy belated birthday and happy new year!🎈
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Thank you, Melissa! Happy 2023 to you!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal!
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Hi Mark! Thank you so much!
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Happy belated Birthday, Crystal ❤
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Hi Kathy! Thank you!
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Happy Birthday to 53 from 55. 😊
Certainly, the more we know, the less we know. In fact, I can prove this to be true.
Great Post, Crystal.
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I completely agree with you. Thanks, Joe! Take care.
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Thank You, Crystal.
Blessings 😇❤️🙏
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