I wished for insight in my year-end reflection. Especially since today is my birthday. I should now have the wisdom of an official 52-year-old. Upon pondering, however, I could only take so much of 2021. In some ways, it was the best of times. A completed graduate degree, a new job I love, a trip across the border to the beach. In other ways, it was the worst of times. Nothing I care to rehash. In fact, there’s no better time than a new year or a birthday to let bygones be bygones and let it go. A gift to myself. Peace. I Believe our struggles strengthen us. I suppose that’s my 2021 takeaway. Strength. Perseverance. I made it. You did, too. As for 2022, I choose Hope. Maybe we’ll all be surprised.



Happy birthday!!
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Thanks, Matt!
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Happy birthday, Crystal! “Hope” is a wonderful word for 2022. I’m choosing “love.”
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Much appreciated, Priscilla!Hope was my first word of the year when I started choosing one in 2018. I continue to carry it with me. I’m still thinking about a word for 2022. We all need more “love.” Love it!
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Happy birthday, Crystal and a happy and prosperous 2022 to you. 😊
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Hi Trev, thank you! And a happy, prosperous new year to you!
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Thank you. 🙂
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You made it in spades! Happy birthday, Crystal. And Happy New Year!
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Whew! Thanks, Jane. The new year always gives me hope. We’ve got this. Happy New Year!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal! Wishing you all the best for 2022 my friend.😊
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Thanks for the good you put out in the world. Wishing it all back to you, Dwight!
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Happy Birthday Crystal. Hope is a wonderful word for 2022. My word is ‘surrender’. Have a wonderful new year.
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Hi Manu, thank you so much and Happy New Year to you and yours. Surrender is great word. I always keep a little hope in my pocket, although I admit it goes missing from time to time.
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Happy birthday to you!
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Hi Lori! Thank you and Happy New Year!
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May your Birthday be one of joy. One of the concepts I genuinely love is dying to each day, allowing what has transpired to fade, and to be reborn fresh in each day. Love this post. Be well, my friend.
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Beautiful thoughts, Bryan. Thank you! Each day is new. ❤️
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Happy Birthday Crystal! I appreciate your thoughts and reflections. I wrote a word down the other day . . . perseverance. So much is built around this word . . . sowed with faith to taste the coming harvest of hope and peace.
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Thanks, Big Sky! Perseverance, faith, hope, and peace. All good words. Happy New Year!
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Happy Birthday Crystal! Wishing you a creative, not so crazy and a profitable new year!
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The perfect wish. Thank you, CCC!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal!!
Love, Joy and Happiness for your Day and for 2022!!
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Much appreciated, Patricia! Happy New Year filled with all those same good things—love and joy!
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Hey there Crystal, Happy Birthday! Happy New! “Don’t count your years, make your years count.” All the best. Jerry
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Hi there, Jerry! Happy New and all the best to you! I greatly appreciate your kind wishes.
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Happy Birthday, Crystal! I join you in choosing Hope for 2022.
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Thanks, Rosaliene. In a game of Hope vs. Despair, I choose hope every time.
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Happy birthday and Happy New Year!
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Thank you so much, RBL! Happy New Year to you!
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Happy Birthday!🎈🎂 wishing you a wonderful year ahead!!
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Thank you, Lori! It was a happy day. Happy 2022 to you!
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Happy birthday Cher! no pun but you share it with Jeff Lynee and two of the Monkees .
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Thanks so much! I’m in good company.
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you betcha. and todays bday musicians . awsome. jd and burton jr and andy summers of police fame.
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That last one… Surrender, let go and have faith.. Thanks for the reminder, Crystal! And happy birthday to you!! 🎊🎉❤️
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Thanks, BB! We all need reminders. Happy this one spoke to you. And Happy New Year!
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Happy New Year, Crystal. All the best to you and yours.
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Happy New Year, Neil! To more long walks and photos and trips to Cape Cod!
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I identify with your bittersweet feelings about 2021. But, as you said, keeping on the sunny side of life is our best option. Happy Birthday, Crystal!
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Thanks, David! I couldn’t bring myself down on a birthday post.
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And I do have a really good feeling about 2022.
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Great message! Happy Birthday! 🎉
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Thanks, Michele! Strange how I didn’t feel I had much to say until I said it. Happy New Year!
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You are welcome. It does often work out that way. 😄 Thank you and best wishes to you!
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Happiest of Birthdays, Crystal. I hope the year ahead is your best yet. 💕
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Very kind wishes. Thank you, Tiger Lily! I hope it’s the best for both of us.
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Happy Birthday, Dear Crystal! May all your wishes come true! 💞
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Very much appreciated! That’s a big wish!!
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Happy Birthday & Happy New Year Crystal!

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I don’t know how you did that. Thank you, Cindy! And Happy New Year to you!
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Happy Birthday Crystal. Wishing you a brighter 2022. Allan
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Good morning, Allan, and thank you! Every day is a new day. Every year is a new year. This one is already off to a better start. Happy New Year to you and yours!
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Happy birthday, Crystal!
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Hi Mitch! Thank you so much. And Happy New Year!
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Happy birthday Crystal. You have a sense of gratitude that temper the storms that inevitably come, and also the love of family of friends. Always you will go forward, and your storms will eventually be blue skies again. I hope you will have a year of triumphs and strength in 2022. – David
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What wonderful thoughts and wishes! Thank you, David. I wish you all the same!
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Happy Birthday, Crystal!
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Thank ye very much!
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Happy birthday!
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Thanks, LA! Day 2 of Year 52. Bring it!
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💗💗
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Happy Birthday, Crystal !!
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Much appreciated! Happy New Year, Subha!
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Happy And Prosperous New Year To You As Well !!!
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Happy Birthday! Congratulations on your many notable accomplishments in 2021 and all the best for the year 2022. 🙌🏾
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Thank you so much, Nefertari!
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Thank you for sharing!!.. a belated Happy Birthday, hope you had a wonderful Christmas and a very Happy New Year with the year filled with peace, love and happiness and life is all that you wish for it to be!!.. 🙂
Until we meet again…
May love and laughter light your days,
and warm your heart and home.
May good and faithful friends be yours,
wherever you may roam.
May peace and plenty bless your world
with joy that long endures.
May all life’s passing seasons
bring the best to you and yours!
(Irish Saying)
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Hi Dutch and thank you so much! Wonderful wishes. May they all return to you—happiness, peace, love, and wishes come true.
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“A gift to myself. Peace.” Now that’s a wonderful gift to give yourself. My birthday wish is for continued peace and a healthy and happy 2022. Happy New Year.
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Peace, health, and happiness. I can’t think of better wishes. Thank you, Brian! Happy New Year.
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Happy Birthday and Happy New Year, friend!
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Thank you, Rhonda! I did my little write and burn today and thought of you. May 2022 bring on the good stuff!
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Awesome! I did not, but I intended to. We had a much needed quiet night at home with a little time for a verbal “airing of the grievances”. Caught the movie “Don’t Look Up” which was disturbing and bonkers but superbly acted and timely. Ready to take on 2022 with gusto! Happy New Year, Crystal!!
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I saw that one yesterday, too. Definitely disturbing, followed it with some rom coms. Hopefully I’ll be ready for 2022 on Monday!
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Hope is truly the best of all things.
Happiest Birthday to you! ❤
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Thanks so much, Robyn. Happy New Year! ❤️
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And to you!
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Cheers to health, happiness, and prosperity in 2022!🎉✨🎉
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Perfect! Thank you, Luisa! Wishing you the same—health, happiness, and prosperity!
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Happy belated birthday and happy 2022 ❤️
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Thank you, Lisa! And Happy 2022 to you! ❤️
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Happy Birthday Crystal, may this year bring more joy, laughter and love than you can possibly imagine! I’m cheering you on, enjoying your writing, and sending a little birthday cheer your way, to many more, C xxoo
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Let me tell you—2022 is already off to a much better start. Your good wishes and cheer are hard at work in my corner. Thank you, Cheryl! ❤️
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I feel ya, on most of the thoughts here, anyway. Really, who doesn’t given how the last couple of years have been for the whole world?
I will say, specifically, congrats on completing the degree as well as the relaxing trip. Also condolences for the other stuff you don’t want to rehash here.
I did the latter, hopefully and intentionally for the last time (fingers crossed I can actually follow though!) on my new blog, along with restarting an old one. Check one or both out if you have time, please.
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Forgot the links!
Starting Over – Because there’s never enough time to do it right the first time but there’s always enough time to do it over (wordpress.com)
My Self Evident Truths… (hbsuefred.com)
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I agree. It’s never too late!
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Continued hope for your new blog and restarts! Thanks for reading, HBSue!
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